A lamington or a chocolate brownie is not a problem. A lamington or a chocolate brownie every day is a big problem. But in that case, perhaps the school could have a quiet word with the parents and ask if they need any help or advice, nutritional or financial.
But sanctimonious and judgemental notes from unnamed educators to parents questioning their common sense and parenting skills help no one.
In a world of egregious social media awash with opinions, advice and judgement, we’ve hit peak parent-shaming, from dummies to disposable nappies, from tantrum-taming to toilet training. And now even our kids’ lunchboxes are fair game.
To the zealous educators, think about those parents eddying madly around their kitchens in search of healthy, non-allergenic, gluten-free, dolphin-friendly, zero-waste, budget-wise lunch options in the midweek maelstrom, the next time you go to reach for the angry note and the red marker.